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May 16, 2012

Renting: The Good, The Bad, The Ugly

Hi! I'm Jamie from the blog [kreyv]. Because of Mr. Hubs' medical schooling, residency, and fellowship, we have rented for nine of our eleven years of marriage. Here are my thoughts on the good, bad, and ugly.

The GOOD
 
I would say that my favorite thing about renting is not being responsible for major maintenance issues. If anything gives you problems or breaks, it's not your problem. At our current rental, the maintenance manager even prefers to change our light bulbs, so that the lighting fixtures don't break (which wouldn't be the worst thing in the world...more on that later)! Aside from maintenance, we love having a pool, fitness club, and clubhouse to use whenever we like.

We have found that most landlords/managers don't mind if you paint, which is a big relief, because chances are, I'm going to want to change the colors of the wall. Some places either charge you or ask that you repaint to the original color. However, if you are renting a private resident, many landlords will agree to let you change things at their expense. Our last rental was a single family home. We changed wall colors, bathroom vanities, light fixtures, and window coverings. Our landlord paid for all of it. We were able to make the home ours, and the landlord got free labor. Win win...for everyone except my husband who did all of the work!

My final "good" is that there's not a huge commitment with renting. We have lived in four different states that, prior to moving, we knew nothing about. Finding a home to buy when you only have a weekend to look is completely scary. Plus, we don't have to worry about leaving an unsold second home when we move again.


The BAD

We are allowed to paint in our current rental, but here's the catch: we have to either repaint the entire thing, OR pay tons of money to have them repaint it. So, we've only painted the entry and the living room, and I just live with the ugly not my favorite paint in all of the other rooms.

I am obsessed with interior design and believe that paint color and lighting are both crucial elements to a good design, neither meet my expectations in our rental. We have no overhead lighting in our living room, which is common in rentals, and I hate it! I need light! We installed a track lighting in our living room, which helps, but isn't the same as good lighting. And, speaking of lighting, the light fixtures here are not one bit cute. But, when renting, you can't be too picky. I guess I'll live with the bad lighting in exchange for granite countertops, stainless steel appliances, and good floors.

And finally, space and storage--or more accurately, the lack of. We are lucky to have walk-in closets in every room, which helps a ton, but we still don't have enough storage. It forces you to be very creative by adding shelves and exercising the art of organization.


The UGLY
 
Having a two year old adds some additional items to our wish list. I wish we had a yard. We are super close to lots of parks, but there's something to be said about a fenced in yard of your own. Besides the privacy, the worry of unknown dangers and strangers isn't such an issue. Other "uglies?" Knowing exactly what movie your neighbors are watching or what songs they are listening to, neighbors who add lawn ornaments, benches, and lighting to the teeny, tiny shared grass areas (we live in town homes), and people who drive around the parking lot as if it's a race track. 


I guess I could some up those last items by saying neighbors. Neighbors that are too close! Luckily, our immediate neighbors are wonderful. Thank goodness!


For now, the good outweighs the bad. I think that regardless of where you live, the important thing is that you make your house a home that reflects the people who live there.

Are you RENTING??

 
If you'd like to share, the good, the bad, the ugly of living in a rental, email me
your submission with 3-4 pictures of your apartment! Pls use the same format as above!




May 15, 2012

The Ugly Word: Jealousy

What a day it was yesterday. I interviewed several applicants for Intern/Assistant position & also added 15 (8x10) Cocoa & Hearts paintings to the site,  which sold out in less than 20 minutes!  As always, I'm amazed & thankful. 
 
It's been a wonderful experience being able to pick up the paint brush again & actually sell my work at this level. My mom paints as well, she's very creative... in fact, I got my creativity from her.
 
But there's an ugly side to having a business & being relatively successful - people begin to HATE. Certain people you thought liked you or were your friends all of a sudden start to remove themselves from your circle. This has happened to me on a number of occasions in the last few years & it's mind boggling. Even for those who don't know you in person & just share an occasional hello or two online - even some of those people become extremely distant. Heck, I've even had (so called) friends that have been jealous that I have such a wonderful husband. Could this be jealousy in it's ugliest form?
 
I sure hope not, but we all know that this world is broken & so we have people with hidden agendas who have no interest in one's heart but instead what they can squeeze out of you. 


Almost EVERY time I launch the newest paintings, I get a hater email. HATER mail, can you believe that? Telling me how my art IS NOT art!  I laugh & don't bother responding. However, today, I'd love to ask them, have you ever been to the MOMA, Getty or The MET? 

It's interesting, some people I know don't consider Cy Twombly's work to be art because of it's sheer simplicity, but I do. I think it's genius. Interesting how that works right?


My point is, art comes in various forms. Sure, not everyone will LOVE my art, but I'm not making paintings for everyone. My art is relatively simple, colorful, modern, vibrant, happy & full of emotion! Again, not for everyone.

On the other hand, I get lots of SUPPORT from some amazing bloggers & readers who have written about my work or expressed their thoughts via email. Someone even asked the other day, 'Jen, why don't you have your work in a gallery?" The answer to that is - I don't know. I haven't had (yet) a gallery approach me about my work, or I approach them. Being in a gallery is a lot of work, and even though I'm not against it, it is something I'd definitely have to think about if approached. Speaking of amazing support, here is a beautiful post that was emailed to me from a reader who expressed what my art meant to her.

And to the HATERS, jealousy is probably the reason you're taking time out of your day to email me. It's that simple. As for me, I will continue to do what I love. 

Have you felt similar feelings of jealousy within the online community? How about in your own circle of friends? How have you dealt with it??








-images by jen ramos









What kind of Bikini are you??

Yesterday was the HOTTEST day in Manhattan so far this year. I thought I would play it cool & so I wore a blazer while walking 15 blocks. Oh my gosh, that was mistake in a half! I was boiling. I hate sweating. Wanna hear the worst part?!?! It's NOT even Summer yet (technically). That scares me.

Speaking of Summer, have you purchased your beach bikini yet?!? 

It feels odd to buy a bikini now that I'm in living in NYC. The beaches out here on the east coast feel dirty to me. Anyone else feel that way?!?  I guess I was just spoiled with the gorgeous & clean beaches of the west coast.  

Anyhow, back to bikinis. My husband says he likes to see me in a 2 piece, I agree with him.... I put together a few favorite pieces I thought would help you out in telling me what you like to wear at the beach.
 
So, what will you be wearing at the beach this summer?!? A one piece, 2 piece or just your b-day suit? 
 










May 14, 2012

Fashion: Painting Inspired Outfit

Hello again! Casie Mace this Monday morning bringing some fashion to MBG readers! I think you'll love this one!

Remember last month when I said I think its fun to find outfit inspiration in, somewhat, random ways? Well this month I thought it'd be fun to do the same thing using Cocoa and Hearts small paintings! Colors 81 and Colors 119 are my favorites and I actually LOVE the color combos they inspire!
 



 




   







P.S. I heard NEW Cocoa & Hearts paintings are going to be added reeaaaally soon! Hopefully you're signed up on the mailing list to be the first to know. If not, go here.


 

May 11, 2012

Your Weekend...




-image by jen ramos 



Design: Over Dyed Area Rugs

Hello MBG readers! Brooke Jones bringing you an interesting trend, over dyed area rugs. I mean, who said old dogs can't learn new tricks? Over dyed area rugs are just that-- vintage rugs that have seen better days that are re-dyed in bright cheery new colors.
 

They almost look like abstract paintings for your floors, don't you think? These rugs would work great to update a traditional room or add a bit of history to modern spaces: a win-win no matter where you use them! Here are my favorite picks from ABC Carpet & Home:

{images via ABC Carpet & Home}





May 10, 2012

Coming Soon..

We are working on a site re-design for Made By Girl & this week we've been shooting all the products! Stay tuned!

Bits of my Week...






above: appetizer from my husband. endive with tofutti cream cheese & salmon. Garnished with pea shoots.





above: at the succarra showroom



above: some of the assistant/intern resumes that were submitted for made by girl.





above: amazing art display using brushes as opposed to paint. genius. MOMA







above: healthy dinner my husband made for me - he rocks!!




above: I stopped this girl to admire the buttons on her jean jacket.





above: raining day in nyc from my apt. 





above: church time in tribeca




above: my sweet dad walking my dog - he's 70 yrs old & not in the best health - so moments like these make me smile.





above: subway entertainment here in nyc - can't beat it.



above: cutest doggie store on the upper east side



above: world trade center rebuilding



above: me wearing some biko jewelry




above: watching president Obama speak live while flat ironing my hair - iPhones are so handy







-images by jen ramos







NYC Photographer Annie Schlecter

Do you guys know Annie Schlecter?? 

She's the photographer behind all these amazing images below! Annie is a native New Yorker & has been working as a photographer since 1998. WOW, that's as long as my husband & I have been together! 

She works with top clients like Veranda, Travel & Leisure, The World of Interiors, Martha Stewart Living, Gilt Group, Kelly Wearstler & more. She also worked with Designer, Jonathan Adler on a book project, which I'm certain you've seen. 

I just love her images, the homes don't seem too overdone. Know what I mean? Sort of like, "Yea, someone definitely lives there"

Have you seen Annie's work? Do her images inspire you?


























-images by annie schlecter







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